Intentional dating

Define what you want.
Find who fits.

Dating for people who know what matters to them. Set detailed preferences, search beyond the basics and discover people who fit the life and relationship you want.

Detailed searchValues & lifestyleLocation & radiusSafer dating tools
Coming soon on theApp Store Coming soon onGoogle Play
The dating experience lives in the mobile app. Store links will activate when the listings go live.
Couples enjoying dates and time together
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Example profile preview
Define your kind of match
Detailed preferences help you focus on compatibility — not endless swiping.
Long-termTravelFamily-mindedWithin 25 miles
⌕Detailed filters
♡Compatibility first
◉Private distance search
✓Report & block tools
Dating, better defined

More control over who you discover

Defined Dating is designed around clear preferences and meaningful compatibility, with a search experience that lets you decide which details actually matter.

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Search beyond the basics

Use detailed filters covering location, age, interests, lifestyle, values and the profile details that matter to you.

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Profiles with context

See more than a photo. Profiles are designed to make preferences, intentions and compatibility easier to understand.

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Safety built in

Blocking, reporting, account controls and clear safety guidance are built into the service rather than treated as an afterthought.

Your standards matter

Stop guessing what someone wants.

Defined Dating asks people to define themselves and what they are looking for more clearly, so search and discovery can work around real preferences.

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Choose your radius.
Use a town/area or private device location for distance-based discovery.
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Filter intentionally.
Combine the details that matter instead of relying on a single recommendation feed.
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Keep control.
Manage photos, password, privacy, location, blocked members and account deletion from modern in-app settings.
Membership

Start free. Upgrade when it helps.

Final prices and store availability are shown in the app before purchase. Paid mobile subscriptions are handled by Google Play or Apple.

Free

£0

Get started, build a profile and explore Defined Dating.

Defined Dating Plus

£5/month target

Our highest-use plan for members who want the broadest access.

Safety & privacy

Know where you stand.

Read our current safety information, privacy notice, community standards and account-deletion guidance before the app launches.